Find a roleplay partner

Look beyond shorthand to compare story ideas, writing preferences and availability.

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What you’ll learn

  • Compare concrete preferences to decide whether a potential partner is a good fit.
  • Compare group size, shared control, live or asynchronous play, writing style, post length and reply frequency.

Read for shared interests

  • Story and characters: does the idea interest you, and is it clear which roles are available?
  • Writing preferences: do the language, usual post length, point of view and tense suit you?
  • Availability: how often does each person expect a reply? Do you need to be online together?
  • Conversation: do you both enjoy planning and chatting outside the story, or would you prefer to keep that brief?
  • Boundaries: are there themes either of you wants to leave out, keep off-screen or discuss first?

On FictionCore, a two-part Find code describes the writer and the kind of partner they are looking for. For example, [F4M] means a female writer looking for a male writer; it does not specify their characters’ genders. F means female, M male, NB non-binary, A any gender and GM Game Master. In [F4M/GM], M and GM are alternatives. These labels describe stated preferences. On other services, similar codes may refer to characters instead, so read the ad and ask if the meaning is unclear.

Assuming too much

The ad says [F4M] and “literate”, so she must want to write a woman opposite a man in long posts.

Checking the details

The writer wants a male partner, but the ad says character roles are flexible. She usually writes two to four paragraphs once a week. That is enough detail to compare our preferences.

Introduce yourself before starting the scene

Read the profile, then use FictionCore’s contact controls if you would like to get in touch. Each person chooses whether to share a contact; receiving theirs does not reveal yours. You arrange the game on an external service you both want to use. In your first message there, mention the ad, explain what interests you and ask one relevant question. For example: “I like the missing-expedition idea, and a weekly post works for me. Is the navigator role still open?” A broad timezone is usually enough for scheduling; you do not need to give your address or workplace.

Try it yourself

An ad says “slow-burn fantasy, [NB4A], lit, active.” What would you clarify before sending a starter?

Show explanation
  • Ask what the writer means by lit and how often they usually post.
  • Read NB4A as a non-binary writer seeking a writer of any gender on FictionCore. Check the ad separately for character roles.
  • Ask about the story idea and what slow-burn means here: gradual romance, a slowly unfolding plot or something else.
  • Discuss boundaries and agree where to talk before beginning the scene.